tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2161975663051184296.post7170176724106631801..comments2023-08-28T11:55:33.279-04:00Comments on Blonde Savant: The Trouble With Love IsNapoleanitahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08840326431866009689noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2161975663051184296.post-57540389791139508322008-09-01T19:33:00.000-04:002008-09-01T19:33:00.000-04:00It seems that because of your father's example whe...It seems that because of your father's example when you were young, you identified yourself with this type of male figure. The identity runs deep, but its easier then you think to lose. Now that you've vented and come to terms with this affinity, forget it it and tell yourself the opposite. It will feel silly, and maybe like a lie at first, to tell yourself and others that your "type" is a successful, ambitious, compassionate and genuine, and that you have hight standards. The way the human mind works though is that you are what you tell yourself. Eventually, you will automatically become that girl. Its not magic. Its just the amazing ability of our minds. Its like turning off the negativity switch and turning on the positivity switch.Chris Duranhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12124917686684818805noreply@blogger.com